First post, don't judge, games can be fair.

I'm Salena. Most people from an outside look would consider me to be an ordinary girl. I guess I am and I don't have a problem with that but I do have a problem with the fact that most people don't take ordinary 15 year old girl seriously. I have opinions about everything, including the fact that people should not judge. Let's face it, every can be judged. No one has perfect hair, a perfect smile, and a perfect body. One of the reasons for that is that perfection is in the eye of the beholder and what is great to someone, can be horrible to the next. Even though, I bet all of us are judged numerous times a day does not mean we should judge others. Just because you look like a model does not mean your stupid. The title of my blog is girl of many colors and that is because I have more than one side. I think everyone does and that's why just because you know one thing about someone, doesn't mean you know everything. My parents often think they know everything in my life and who I am. They probaly do know most of the things in my life but not as much who I am. They don't know what my struggles are or what I am capible of. They can't tell how hard I try or what scares me. They might know that I want to succeed, but I don't think they know that's why I play the game. I play it fair.

There is no need to cheat in a board game. Sometime you win, sometimes you loose, but everyone can have fun just playing the game. I think it is simplar in life but unlike a game, you need to work to make other as well as yourself happy. Everyone can and should be treated equal. There is no exuces. "It doesn't have to be fair" or "Because I said so" should never be used. If you try your best to make everyone happy, it is the most fair it can be and you should have a reason fore everything. I know you may think I am just a 15 year old who wants things her way but that is not how it is at all. I know I live a very lucky life and have a great family, who raised me well, but I know things could have been better if we worked together to make the best fit for everyone. Even today, it seem my family does not care about our (the kids) choises. They can't even try and work with us to find a place that everyone is happy.

So, comment to my blog with your own opinions and the next time your child, someone who looks up to you, or someone your making choises for, asks you to do something else or a different way, try and work together so you both can be happy.
:) Salena Briana