Tuesday, May 12, 2009

She is such a

I don't need to complete the sentence. We all know what could complete it. I have to admit I have said it before. I shouldn't judge someone because I don't agree with their behaviors but I still do it anyway. Sometime we say this with stupid in the blank but insulting someones lack of intelligence is not going to do anybody any good. Sometime we might feel in the blank with an other word for mean. This might be true about a person but talking to them would be a better solution, right? Probably. And what about the extreme one. When your saying someone shows to much skin or go too far with too many guys. This is used a lot and it's probably the most common way I fill the blank. I don't like it when girl take inappropriate pictures or sleep with many guys in high school. I think they have no class but I don't say that I say "She is such a".
So, what about what people say about celebrities. I don't think it is right to judge someone quickly. A lot of people I know say "Miley Cyrus is such a". She has taken a picture or two of her belly and kissing a guy. SO? Ok, she is a role model but it is the parents and medias fault for letting their children see this. If the media does not highlight it saying it is a bad example, no one would see the example. And what parents give their kids access to places where they can see "scandless photos". She is a teenager and not doing that much wrong. She is not making a sex tape or going on play boy. She is not flashing people or even swearing. She keeps it real and tries to balance living her life at the same time. I know people who take much worse pictures and are mean too. And as much as we may like to believe that we aren't role models because we are not celebrities it a bunch of Bull. Everyone is a role model who has a kid, a younger sibling, or even a cousin. Even if you don't have siblings people still might look up to you.
Even though we all say it, the only way we should way this phrase is, She is such a lovely person.

1 comment:

Ginny Marie said...

You're right about role models...you are a role model for a couple of little girls that I happen to know pretty well!

Keep up the great blogging!